1. Thinking You're Crazy
If the guy you're seeing is consistantly calling you "crazy", he may be gaslighting you. And don't worry - I didn't know what gaslighting was until I personally experienced it. Its actually a form of mental abuse that makes you question your sanity or memory of an argument or situation. Do you constantly feel like your mate has selective memory? Is he/she saying his accusations are "jokes"? Are you confused in general? Then he's gaslighting you and playing mind games. So, no. You're not crazy.
2. Wanting Commitment
If you've been "nagging" him for a few months about making it official, you're not actually nagging. You're asking for what you deserve
based on your time and investment. There's nothing wrong with wanting a commitment, and you shouldn't be ashamed for wanting to take things to the next level with a guy you care about. If he doesn't give it to you in a fair amount of time, walk away. You should be with a man who's excited to call you his girlfriend. And trust me, you'll be happy that you did it.
3. Doubting Your Appearance From Time To Time
We all know how to "
sex up" our look when the occasion calls for it. But some days, self-doubt gets the best of us. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, but it's temporary. When I'm in an appearance rut, I spend some extra time pampering myself ith a new outfit, changing my hair or color, and sometimes just a pedicure will do the trick. Sprucing yourself up a little bit always helps to boost your
confidence!
4. Wanting the wrong guy
Sometimes we want the wrong guy. It's like craving pizza when you're on a diet—deep down you know you're not supposed to indulge, but it's so good. But, stop! Get out of a bad situation before it gets worse. If your gut tells you he's wrong—then let your feet match it and walk away. Better yet, if your friends and mother tell you a guy is no good, run!
5. Social Media Stalking
To quote Cruel Intentions, "EVERYONE does it, but NO ONE talks about it."
It's not unusual for women to check out an ex on Facebook or Instagram to ... see what they're up to. But while it may be normal, it's not healthy. When I find myself doing this, I'm more likely to unfriend them or unfollow to avoid the obvious temptation.
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