1. Let her take control once in a while. She has just as much desire as you do... and she wants the opportunity to show you sometimes.
2. Variety of motion and movement. A variety of motions, fast, slow, shallow, deep, rotational, types of caresses/touches tongue and mouth staying engaged, and to be more adventurous with positions. Guys, vary your str0ke and thrust game essentially.
3. Make it all about her. She wants to feel special. She wants to feel desired. And she might want to be spoiled, too. Massage her sometimes, look directly into her eyes sometimes, tease her sometimes and be willing to do anything to make her cl1max. Sometimes start k1ssing slowly, and stay slow enough to watch for signs that encourage more rapid movement and advances. Kiss her lips, cheeks, eyelids, and neck slowly until she makes it clear she can't handle another second without... more. Let the anticipation build to unlock real passion. Take the time to make things about her, and she will more that willingly reciprocate. A little extra goes a long way.
4. Go down now and always. 75 percent of all women never reach 0rgasm from intercourse alone. That means if he’s not going down, there’s a good chance she’s not getting all she can out of the situation. Oral s3x is a special level of intimacy. It creates a trust when you allow someone to experience your body so closely. And, that trust and allowance can provide for incredible physical and mental release and pleasure.
5. Foreplay which begins outside the bedroom. Arousal for a woman often starts long before she is consciously aware it is happening. She is turned on by a look...by a statement...by his wit...even his willingness to listen without judgement. Seduction is an art form, and requires effort. It demands focus on her. She wants to feel important. She wants to matter. She wants to feel desired. A woman's largest erogenous zone is her mind, with his words and actions being the ultimate tools for effective foreplay.