1.In His Mind, You’re Not in a Relationship.
Sure, you’re sleeping together but he balks at the idea of labelling the relationship and you don’t want to drive him away or appear clingy so you shrug and agree to see “where things go...”
Sorry but truth is, he wants his freedom. He wants to look around and he thinks there may be greener pastures out there.
If you’ve been dating for at least a couple of months and he is determinedly keeping it casual, you’re probably not the One.
2.He’s Hot.
The hotter he is the more likely he’ll be to cheat as the opportunities will be more frequent.
Most men can only dream of girls constantly throwing themselves at them so when some guys are blessed by nature (or have spent hours at the gym) they aren’t going to throw away all this female-lovin’ for just one girl unless she’s a multi millionaire award winning actress and even then it may be unlikely.
Think Brad Pitt.
3.They Privately think it is Okay.
We all know cheating is bad but some men actually privately think it really isn’t that bad.
I mean as long as she doesn’t find out what real difference does it make?
One of their most used justifications is that it just isn’t in human nature to be a monogamist.
4.They like the idea of going to Bed with Someone New.
It feels different, exciting and even scandalous. The thrill of going to bed with someone other than your long term girlfriend is something that some cheaters love.
5.He’s Scared of Commitment.
Everyone is scared of commitment; promising their entire life away to another person.
So in a way to combat falling in love and making a commitment some men prefer to cheat in order to keep their heart closed and to prolong the period when they are free to be young, crazy and single.
6.He’s Too Young.
Nowadays most guys think about settling down in their 30s and any time before that the timing just ain’t right. Partying, drinking, chasing and bedding lots of girls is fun and for a lot of us, just part and parcel of being young.
We all get the urge to sow our wild oats but after that period of our life is over we are ready to make the commitment. We just need the world to beat & wear us down a little before we can appreciate the comfort of one good woman at home.
7.The Relationship is in Trouble.
If you’re fighting with your girlfriend all the time that easy going girl at the office becomes a lot more attractive. Dissatisfaction at home, coupled with opportunity & rose tinted glasses with re to the other woman leads to cheating.
8.As a way to get Dumped.
Some men find it incredibly hard to call time on a long term relationship if the girlfriend refuses to let him go.
He will cheat blatantly as a way to release himself from the relationship.
9.He falls in Love with Someone else.
It happens.
He finds someone who is his soulmate, the girl who matches him in all respects and so he moves on with her.
